"But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called 'Today,' so that none of you may be hardened by sin's deceitfulness."
(Hebrews 3:13)
I heard someone say recently that when you encourage someone, you literally give them courage, but when you discourage another person, you take courage from them. I think that is very true. We all have people in our lives that impact us in one of two ways: they routinely encourage or discourage us. And I imagine you and I do the same to others: we either instill courage in them or take it from them by the words we speak to them.
We are blessed at our home church, Great Hills Baptist Church, in Austin, TX. We have many who are encouragers. When I see them heading my way or notice an email or note from them, I know that they are reaching out to me to affirm, build up, and instill courage within me. One of those people is Mary Lou. She is around 90 years young and one of the most encouraging people in our church. She loves the Lord and the Word of God, and she is one who loves to build up and not tear down.
We had a wonderful church member leave us a couple weeks back, and what a tremendous loss we feel. Felix Daily was one of the most kind, sharp, and godly men I have ever known. He was 93 when he went to heaven, and what a "Barnabus" he was. He was a person of extreme encouragement. He was my prayer partner, and my life is poorer without him in it. Felix lived out Clint Eastwood's wise saying, "Don't let the old man in." Most do not age gracefully. They complain and become sour the closer they get to the grave. But not Felix. I want to be like him if the Lord allows me to live that long. I want to be someone who believes the best in others and goes out of my way to offer words of life and hope, one who builds up and does not tear down, one who gives courage instead of taking it.
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